
Self-development is an entertaining and interesting process, a thing that allows you to correct your mistakes, improve your skills, train and take consistent steps towards success. Based on all of the above, we can see that everything we do in personal development is good for us. However, even such a thing as self-development has its dark sides. Can such a good deed really screw us up? Unfortunately, this is true. From this feature and will be discussed today. “Don’t switch!” — As they say on TV.
In order not to get into the dark corners of self-development, you need to be aware of all possible traps and try to avoid them. Let’s deal with each trap separately.
You won’t be perfect
Self-development helps us to reach our goal, that is, to move forward. But, diving into the maelstrom of personal development, it is very easy to get into a vicious circle. After reading one instructive book, you can get a lot of positive emotions, what you read will make you look at many things from a different angle, however, instead of practicing the knowledge you have gained, you start looking for similar literature, in search of something even more perfect.
What is the problem? You don’t use what you already know. Your desire to change yourself does not lead to the desired result, in the end, such self-development will resemble a fountain that seems to perform some actions, but still remains in the same position, in the same place.
Prioritize
Self-improvement can drag on for many years, and you will still feel that you are imperfect. By focusing on things that you think you need to adjust, you will stay in one place without having any progress.
There is no need to strive for perfectionism, remember, you cannot become the best at everything. It is a great art to be able to use knowledge and skills today, now.
You are a hostage of the calendar
Is your calendar full of notes? Is this about you? Most likely, you want to do the best, but even here such actions can lead to the fact that the number of notes in the calendar will grow, but the number of successfully completed cases will not move from the dead point. There is no question of any progress in this case. Meet your friends from that moment on: constant remorse, and disappointment. You will not even notice how you will find yourself in the thrall of your own calendar. Remember that not all cases require that they be entered in the list or marked in the calendar. Try to keep to-do lists to a minimum.
Don’t fall into the vicious circle of literature
Undoubtedly, self-development books can offer a lot of tips, using which you can not only increase your self-confidence, but also introduce useful life hacks into your life.
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However, it is worth remembering that there is no single recipe for life and there will never be.
When reading such literature, it is very important to do the described practices really trying to change your life, and not just give in to smart thoughts, ala “Yes, I agree, I would have done here, I would have done the same” Without action, progress cannot be achieved.